Give up to win

It is not your job to figure out every ones problems. We all do it, "how can I help so and so, what does this person need? What they need is for you to be loving, compassionate supportive. Everything else leave at God's feet. He knows what they need, He knows how best to bring them thru whatever it is that they need to get thru. Relieve yourself of that burden and that worry. It is not your job. It is in fact a lack of faith in God,m that He will work things out. Have a little faith and God will set you free.